31 Days of Love - Day 11

I'm just finally jumping in to the challenge here at Day 11...Titus2sDay will resume after this series is over. I have the button for Time-Warp Wife at the end of the post if you'd like to check out Darlene's website for yourself. I highly recommend it! Anyway here goes with Day 11 of 31 Days of Love...

Just ask him. Just ask him?

I hear this a lot on the radio programs I listen to. Just ask your husband what you can do to be a better wife to him...just ask him what it is that makes him feel loved...just ask him what it is that makes him feel good.

It's not that I mind asking it's that I'm totally afraid of the part of the answers that might come like 'When you do this I don't feel good' or 'If you don't do this I don't feel loved...'

But asking has to be a lot easier than living out the rest of our lives with that pit in our stomachs!

There's also I believe the right time and way to ask and I don't think walking in the living room and turning off the tv to ask is really a good idea. So I'll wait - but I really do want to ask!